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Would u pay for an escort?

msggrl

01/20/2011 07:16 pm

How i miss the old days when a man would pay to be a companion.
attractive women would accompany men to work functions dinner date movies etc..

Do you think this still exist or would u consider this a sugar daddy relationship?

would u pay for companionship w.o sex?

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JDPhantom

01/21/2011 05:27 am

I'm sure it still exists, a guy paying for a woman to accompany him to one place or another, with or without the sex. But a sugar-daddy relationship? I don't know. That's going to depend entirely on the man and the woman involved, if it's a one-time thing, long-term, one-on-one, through an agency... way too many variables to completely define it as one thing or another.

Would I pay for companionship without sex? No. I'm a minimum-wage boy, through and through, so there's no way I could afford it plus, even if I could, it just wouldn't meet the old cost-benefit ratio for me to rationalize it.

innergame

01/21/2011 03:47 pm

msggrl wrote:
How i miss the old days when a man would pay to be a companion.
attractive women would accompany men to work functions dinner date movies etc..

Do you think this still exist or would u consider this a sugar daddy relationship?

would u pay for companionship w.o sex?


Well, if your talking about a 65-75 man with a 20 something woman on his shoulder...yea that still happens a lot...but usually men with money and power expect something more then a just a goodnight kiss.

Derpdydoo

01/21/2011 09:02 pm

Would I pay for companionship with sex? Nope
Would I pay for companionship without sex? Abso-fuckinglutely no!

I never pay women for their time. I pay for them to leave when I'm done.

msggrl

01/22/2011 06:30 am

Derpdydoo wrote:
Would I pay for companionship with sex? Nope
Would I pay for companionship without sex? Abso-fuckinglutely no!

I never pay women for their time. I pay for them to leave when I'm done.


OUCH! now ur scaring me derpdoo

and i always liked u

i cant be upset ur only being honest

hiroller

01/22/2011 07:44 am

I wouldn't pay for companionship without sex. I don't have the money for it but even if I did I don't think I would. It would be a matter of pride amond other things. I can't see myself wanting to spend time with a woman who wouldnt' be with me for free. I like it to be genuine.

Now companionship with sex- maybe. Depends on the woman, and how I'm feeling at the time though.

jumpingin

01/22/2011 09:52 pm

Msggrl, I would have to turn the question around. Would you / have you used male escorts with no sex involved. There are other options available which are more practical and economical. Personally never used one. I think alot of us aren't the wall street crowd. The sugar daddy thing. Well if you expect them to be your bank account and to wait on you and lavish you with gifts regularly, yes. I'm speaking in general not directly to you on this subject.

msggrl

01/23/2011 04:20 am

for many reasons i would never pay for a male escort the main one ill never say it would ruin my "career"
I do have clients who do over nights and weekends...
sometimes they pay just to cuddle with me no sex involved
other times they are more demanding i do not mind either way they r paying so they r allowed what they want within reason.
Many of my "friends" enjoy my company and would like to see me outside of work the majority of the time i tell them they need to pay me for my time the first hour is standard the remaining are very much discounted..
with me business is business its a give and a take they know that as long as im honest an up front but not rude i dont think anyone can be upset . sometimes i ask to take them out of if they would like to join me. i tell them that as well if they are willing and no i do nto expect to be paid then

Derpdydoo

01/23/2011 10:34 am

Derpdydoo wrote:
Would I pay for companionship with sex? Nope
Would I pay for companionship without sex? Abso-fuckinglutely no!

I never pay women for their time. I pay for them to leave when I'm done.


I was speaking of the first two from a hobbiest perspective. Of course, I've paid for companionship with and without sex, it's called dating. My time has become more precious then money and it's nice to remove the pretense. No waiting to run the bases and I don't have to hear about your poor sick grandma, or check in with you 3-4 times a day.

Now here's the rub... I might be the biggest chump out here. I've fallen for a rub & tug girl that's reviewed here. She's never so much brushed my boys and now I'm giving her driving lessons... (The behind the wheel kind, not the backseat kind.)

JDPhantom

01/23/2011 05:33 pm

Derpdydoo wrote:


I was speaking of the first two from a hobbiest perspective. Of course, I've paid for companionship with and without sex, it's called dating. My time has become more precious then money and it's nice to remove the pretense. No waiting to run the bases and I don't have to hear about your poor sick grandma, or check in with you 3-4 times a day.


I hear you there, man. I am so sick and tired of dating. Haven't even tried in over seven years now! WOO-HOO! No more hoops to jump through. No more whining or singing praises about this, that, and most every other thing that I have absolutely no interest in. And no more games. They say they want an honest relationship, but when you are, they aren't and accuse you of not being honest. It really is just a waste of time and money.

Derpdydoo wrote:


Now here's the rub... I might be the biggest chump out here. I've fallen for a rub & tug girl that's reviewed here. She's never so much brushed my boys and now I'm giving her driving lessons... (The behind the wheel kind, not the backseat kind.)


GAH! Dude, if she hasn't shaken hands with Mr. Happy, are you really sure she's a rub & tug girl? Or is she maybe just a rub & rub girl? Even money, once the lessons are done and she has the license in her hands, it's going to be "Buh-bye." I hope she's at least buying you dinner and a movie for these lessons.

Derpdydoo

01/23/2011 08:45 pm

Wanderer wrote:


GAH! Dude, if she hasn't shaken hands with Mr. Happy, are you really sure she's a rub & tug girl? Or is she maybe just a rub & rub girl? Even money, once the lessons are done and she has the license in her hands, it's going to be "Buh-bye." I hope she's at least buying you dinner and a movie for these lessons.


Either she's a r&t girl or there are a half dozen liars here. I really don't think she enjoys it, from both getting to know her and her reviews on the extra side are far from stellar.

She didn't buy me dinner.. She gave me an orange. As she was showing me pictures of her outside work. Including a lady from another shop that's given me a BBBJ in a typically HJ only joint...

This is going to make for interesting conversation if we ever let the skeletons out....

msggrl

01/23/2011 10:03 pm

Derpdydoo wrote:


I was speaking of the first two from a hobbiest perspective. Of course, I've paid for companionship with and without sex, it's called dating. My time has become more precious then money and it's nice to remove the pretense. No waiting to run the bases and I don't have to hear about your poor sick grandma, or check in with you 3-4 times a day.

Now here's the rub... I might be the biggest chump out here. I've fallen for a rub & tug girl that's reviewed here. She's never so much brushed my boys and now I'm giving her driving lessons... (The behind the wheel kind, not the backseat kind.)


omg i think i might know who u r!!!!
did u see a therapist named wendy ? if u have i know who u r if not then im still clueless

Derpdydoo

01/23/2011 10:22 pm

I can't think of any Wendy's that I've ever seen.. The only 2 I can think of was an indy and one at Sunset and I haven't seen either.

Are you really looking to out me here?

I've given up trying to figure out who you are.. Even though I have my hunches...

msggrl

01/23/2011 10:31 pm

no i would not out u out u here.. darn im surprised ive never seen u!not that ive never worked wit u but just generally speaking .... their are some girls that are ok to fall for ones who will care for u back and other oh geez i hate so say will only break ur heart...

msggrl

01/23/2011 10:36 pm

and about the girl as far as i know she has never been reviewed maybe i missed it
if she dosent like what she does it sad she should quit but its hard for us we get used to the pay and hard to pay our bills without it

we average 40 an hr per client and to go back to a regular job at min wage dosent cut it ne more

but with her knowing u come see her im sure u make her dyad brighter and she looks forward to seeing u

Derpdydoo

01/23/2011 10:39 pm

Well.. I'm a pretty cold individual.. Maybe "fall" wasn't the right word. I'm attracted to her and enjoy spending time with her.. (4 1/2 hours today) Hopefully the feeling is mutual, but, I'm just taking it as it comes.

msggrl

01/23/2011 10:41 pm

some day i will give u 100% verification of who i am

just know who u think i am you are probably dead on..
i just havent admited it i try and be very private when it comes to other things

their are reasons behind my wanting to stay private...
if u really want to know im glad to tell u in a summary and then im sure u will understand why i am the way i am people who have seen me a few times know my story...

thomaso

01/27/2011 02:44 pm

I have found myself going to an asian MP where there are no extra's just because I really enjoy the therapist and she gives a very thorough and sensual massage. At least I get a great massage for my money.

abbyrubz

03/02/2011 05:29 am

msggrl wrote:
How i miss the old days when a man would pay to be a companion.
attractive women would accompany men to work functions dinner date movies etc..

Do you think this still exist or would u consider this a sugar daddy relationship?

would u pay for companionship w.o sex?


Heck yea it still exists. It happens everyday. Some people call it "going on a date." Its very common that a man buys dinner, a movie, roses, drinks etc etc and there is no guarantee that he is going to get some bootie. Others call it Marriage! (im just saying)

abbyrubz

03/02/2011 05:31 am

Derpdydoo wrote:
Would I pay for companionship with sex? Nope
Would I pay for companionship without sex? Abso-fuckinglutely no!

I never pay women for their time. I pay for them to leave when I'm done.


ROFLMAO!!!

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