First sucessful trip - does it get any better?
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Well I had my first successful trip last week, see my review, though I left wishing there was a little more to it. The whole experience felt pretty mechanical. She was nice enough, was appreciative of the tip but there wasn't any energy to it. It felt very much like a routine. I would've liked some playfulness, especially before the flip, and something more than a look of determination on her face during the HJ. Are there better places or providers out there that offer a more sensual experience without FS?
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I generally find that the more you visit them, the more comfortable she will feel with you and it gets better, more flirty and playful.
Sometimes it is a matter of chemistry. They see a lot of guys over the course of a month. If they remember you that is a serious plus. Just hope they remember you for all the right reasons. I remember going to a provider and getting a lot of HJ (hand jobs), BJ (blowjobs) and FS (full service). There may be limits on how much service management will allow.">extras for a first time visit. More so than most of the guys reported on their first visits. After a number of visits and becoming very familiar with her I asked why she was so accommodating with me so soon. Her answer, "you are clean and smell good". I think arrogance is a turn-off. Being polite carries a lot of weight.
Howyman, I've kind of wrestled with this issue. I started visiting AMPs about a year and a half ago, and found several regulars that seemed to give the best overall experience. I kept going back to those ones, and although the experience does get better as they get to know you, it's still a job for them and it still seems mechanical to a certain extent.
I find Asians ladies to be hot, but I don't have a thing for them the way some people here do, and I have a really hard time with the prevalence of 40+ year old ladies in the biz. They just don't get me going.
I've recently been visiting a few independent FBSM providers, which in my personal opinion (some here would vehemently disagree, I think), deliver a more personalized and sensual/erotic massage experience which might be more of what you're looking for. They charge more, but I usually leave feeling like the dollars were a better deal.
Just my humble opinion. PM me if you're looking for some names of ladies to try.
Good comments, I would agree with your assessment to a degree but probably because most indys are working out of their apartments and privacy is not the issue it is at many amps. The other concern is with security. IMHO amps are more subject to LE because of sites like this one. I would be curious as to how many indys started life in a micro mp and moved out on their own. The money would be better but it makes for a long day if business is slow. I have also had some bad experiences with indys. A couple I visited would be put in the fake/flake category with major upselling being an issue.
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